Family Holiday at Somerset- Krishan Arya

Krishan Arya

Krishan Arya

Krishan Arya

Family and Friends, I am loading few photos of our recent holidays…

Time for a change…

It was strange to some of my friends with my statement at Orkut few days back. I wish to start this discussion with the statement “If everything around you is going perfect, mean a change is about to come in your life”. This statement is an experience of my 20 years professional experience, the business will not remain static, the environment will change, I will recall the the baloon story where if you press on the baloon it’s total shape will cahnge but what happens, if there is no pressure on the baloon but the temprature outside keep on changing or when it travel touching thorn. Will it survive or will it make a chnage to make if it is kept in a cold environment or a plane surface.

The same situation apply to business and even to individuals in day today life. I believe we should not wait for time to change us, but we should keep on moving to different environment, different situation or in differnt group of people. That will force us to gain more skills, training, traits, culture and languages. This will also force us to adapt to change. I recollect leaning local laguage when I went to serbia had to learn Serbian and in China, could not avoid to learn a bit of Chinese also. This is not by choice, if you put yourself in a different environment you will end up leaning more and exploring your own experience with a differnt way, which you never have tried. The second reason for necesary change is the life cycles or economy and businesses, change of technology and change of fashion. If you are comfortable and happy at your existing situation, you are leaning to get obsolete in just couple of years. I still remember some of my friend who were experts in their field in automotive company had to struggle for survival when the ownership changed in the company, they had a totally different system.

The change is part of life and the people who love change can change their problems in to opportunity. It may be any problem of life, we might gain happiness just by change of perception about change.

Regards: Krishan

Why do we shout in anger?

‘Why do we shout in anger?’ A saint asked his disciples, ‘Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?’ His disciples thought for a while, one of them said, ‘Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.’ ‘But, why do you shout when the other person is just next to you?’ asked the saint. ‘Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry?’ Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint. Finally he explained, ‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.’ Then the saint asked, ‘What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small…’ The saint continued, ‘When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other. ‘MORAL’ said the saint: ‘When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return!’ See beyond immediate circumstances. Clear the decks of old grievances, become free from outdated thinking. Learn from past experiences and move on by tapping inner sources of self-worth and humility. Valuing honesty and commitment, softly let go and enable others to change. There are new horizons, new growth, a new lease of life.

 

Thanks Prakash Talathi ji for sharing this with my group.

Holiday in Drayton Manor

This was really a fun to spend time with family in Drayton Manor.

Summer Holidays – Scotland

The visit to Scotland was really wonderful. Few pictures are attached for you all.

Lovely Kenilworth

The visit to Kenilworth is really worth. Kids enjoyed the visit and the lovely town and park.

Passed the Driving Test of UK

Yehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh…………..

 

Finally I’ve passed the test this week guys, thanks for supporting me during this period, I am a good to go driving for UK. May be the fail